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I'm so happy you're here! This little corner is where I share the stories behind the photos—capturing love, connection, and creativity across the Isle of Wight and the South Coast.

Weddings full of heart
From elegant estates to windswept clifftop vows, I photograph weddings with a focus on real emotion, relaxed moments, and all the joyful in-betweens. If you love timeless imagery and a touch of fun, you’re in the right place.

Family moments, beautifully told
Think golden light, sandy toes, muddy boots, and all the cuddles. My family photography celebrates your people exactly as they are—full of love, laughter, and life. Because these days are too precious not to remember.

Personal brands with personality
Your brand deserves imagery that feels as good as it looks. Whether you're a creative entrepreneur, small biz owner, or passionate maker, I help bring your vision to life with photos that are stylish, scroll-stopping, and so you.

So grab a cuppa, have a scroll, and let’s celebrate the stories that matter most.

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Finding the Perfect Match: Choosing Your Wedding Photographer

When it comes to wedding planning, there’s one supplier who will spend more time with you than almost anyone else on your big day — your photographer. From those early morning bridal prep moments right through to the first dance (and often beyond), your photographer is by your side capturing the memories you’ll treasure forever.

That’s why finding the perfect match is about so much more than price.

When it comes to wedding planning, there’s one supplier who will spend more time with you than almost anyone else on your big day — your photographer. From those early morning bridal prep moments right through to the first dance (and often beyond), your photographer is by your side capturing the memories you’ll treasure forever. That’s why finding the perfect match is about so much more than price.

Wedding photographer smiling with a newlywed couple, candid black and white photo capturing joy and connection on the wedding day

A happy candid moment with me and a couple on their wedding day.

More Than Just a Price Tag

Yes, your budget matters, but the cheapest or most expensive option isn’t automatically the best fit for you. Your photographer’s style, personality, and way of working need to align with you and your partner. After all, you’ll be spending hours together — you want someone you can trust, relax with, and genuinely enjoy having around on your wedding day..

Meet Them in Person

Wedding fayres are brilliant for this. They give you the chance to see photographers’ work up close, chat face-to-face, and get a feel for their personality. Sometimes it’s an instant spark — you’re drawn to their images, their energy, or the way they talk about your day. That “click” is often the best sign you’ve found someone who truly understands you.

Wedding photographer chatting with an engaged couple at a wedding fayre, with framed photos and floral display at her stand.

I really enjoy meeting couples at wedding shows.

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Flyers vs. Digital Brochures

Wedding fayres often mean walking away with an armful of glossy flyers. While they’re lovely to browse, I’ve found that an online brochure is much more practical (and eco-friendly!). Mine can be emailed straight to you — faster, easier, and far more cost-effective. It’s packed with everything you need to know: packages, FAQs, and what it’s really like to have me there on your wedding day..

LINK TO MY ONLINE BROCHURE

Secure Your Date Early

Here’s the truth: wedding photography dates book up fast. 2026 is already filling, and 2027 isn’t far behind. If you’ve found a photographer you love, don’t leave it too long — securing your date with a deposit (mine is £500) gives you peace of mind and ticks one very important thing off your wedding to-do list.

Smiling woman in glasses and a white sweater holding a smartphone, sitting at a desk with a pink mug and laptop.

Im ready and waiting for you to contact me to see if am available to photograph your wedding day.

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My STUDIO READY FOR A Newborn

Stepping into my Newport studio feels like entering a calm little cocoon. The first thing you’ll notice is the soft natural light streaming through sheer curtains—perfect for those dreamy, timeless newborn portraits.

Welcome to My Newborn Photography Studio, in the heat of the island

Bright, airy newborn photography studio with soft natural light and neutral décor in Newport, Isle of Wight

Discover a serene newborn photography studio in Newport, Isle of Wight. Soft natural light, cozy textures, and a relaxing experience for you and your baby.

Stepping into my Newport studio feels like entering a calm little cocoon. The first thing you’ll notice is the soft natural light streaming through sheer curtains—perfect for those dreamy, timeless newborn portraits. The soft music and gorgeous calm sent sets the scene for both the newborn and their parents.

Designed for Comfort

Plush pouffe with neutral blankets and professional camera ready for a newborn photography session

My camera is taking a few moments to relax before the baby arrives

Every corner is planned with your baby’s comfort in mind. Neutral tones, plush textures, and warm layers create a soothing environment. I alway suggest that parents and sibling also wear similar tones. From the cozy pouffes to the gentle rugs underfoot, everything is chosen to keep baby relaxed—and parents at ease.

Thoughtful Details

A softly glowing candle adds a peaceful scent and a warm touch. My favourite candles is from The White Company. Its called ‘Love’ and the fragrance of amber, tonka bean, oud is devine. It moves to back of the studio when the client arrive, for safety, but the studio smell beautiful.

Layers of freshly laundered blankets wait to swaddle your little one in comfort. I use natural fabrics and soft baby skin detergent that are gentle on delicate newborn skin and photograph beautifully.

Large windows with flowing curtains filling the studio with natural daylight.

The Perfect Light

Im so lucky to have large windows and flowing curtains give me flattering daylight that makes studio flash unnecessary for most sessions. This soft illumination highlights every tiny feature, from sleepy lashes to perfect toes and ensure your newborn can remain as undisturbed as possible.

crib with soft white blanket with window light flooding in.

Your Experience

During your session, you can relax on a comfortable chair with a hot drink while I gently guide your baby into natural poses. Sessions are never rushed—your newborn sets the pace, so we can pause for cuddles or feeds whenever needed.

Booking Your Session

Newborn portraits are best captured within the first two weeks of life, when babies are still super sleepy and curled. I recommend booking while you’re still pregnant so we can reserve your ideal date. Saying that babies sometime have other plans. Thats fine we can change times to suit the new VIP.

If you’d love serene, heartfelt images of your newborn, contact me here to reserve your session. I can’t wait to welcome you and your little one to this peaceful space.

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My First Podcast Interview with Roger from RN Media 🎙️

Stepping outside your comfort zone is always a little nerve-wracking — especially when it involves a microphone and knowing people will actually be listening back! I’m not a natural at being interviewed (give me a camera in my hand any day), but I was lucky enough to have the lovely Roger from RN Media guide me through my very first podcast chat.

Stepping outside your comfort zone is always a little nerve-wracking — especially when it involves a microphone and knowing people will actually be listening back! I’m not a natural at being interviewed (give me a camera in my hand any day), but I was lucky enough to have the lovely Roger from RN Media guide me through my very first podcast chat.

Roger has been a radio presenter for over 30 years, and it really shows. He instantly put me at ease, even when I stumbled over a few words or dropped in the occasional “um.” His calm, confident way of asking questions made the whole experience feel more like a friendly chat than an interview.

And you know what? I’m actually really happy with how it turned out! For a first try, it was a brilliant experience — and it’s made me excited to do more, maybe even some video chats in the future. (So definitely watch this space!)

Below I’ve shared 5 little snippets from my conversation with Roger. They’ll give you a flavour of our chat — full of laughs, a few wobbly moments, and lots of passion for what I do.

What camera do I use?

Hear all about my kit and when I use each of my lenses.

The booking process

I explain what the booking process involves

WHAT YOUR

PHOTOGRAPHER WANTS YOU TO KNOW

In this episode we chat about my part of your wedding day.

children at weddings

I discuss with Roger my thoughts on inviting children to your wedding celebrations.

FUN WEDDING PHOTOS

In this clip we talk about how to add some fun into the standard wedding photography

✨ A huge thank you to Roger for being such a natural and for encouraging me to step into something new. Ill add a link to his profile below. I’d love to know what you think of the clips — drop me a comment or message, and let me know if you’d like to hear more podcast chats from me in the future!

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Seasoned, Passionate & Here to Stay: Why I’m the Wedding Photographer You Can Trust

I’ve been photographing weddings for nearly two decades – and I can tell you this: it never, ever gets old.
From the nervous excitement in the morning to the first dance and the realisation the day has been more than anyone could have imagined. I’m still hooked.
This post is for you if you’re newly engaged, just finding me for the first time, and wondering if I might be the right person to capture your wedding day.

I’ve been photographing weddings for nearly two decades – and I can tell you this: it never, ever gets old.
From the nervous excitement in the morning to the first dance and the realisation the day has been more than anyone could have imagined. I’m still hooked.
This post is for you if you’re newly engaged, just finding me for the first time, and wondering if I might be the right person to capture your wedding day.

What 20 Years SHOOTING Weddings Has Taught Me:

When I picked up my first camera a Canon AE1 at the age of 15, I had no idea it would lead me here – to a career full of love stories, laughter, and a lens covered in champagne. Moments of pure joy and excitement. Real emotions, proud family and friends. Unity, connection, commitment and most of all love.


I’ve photographed weddings in castles, barns, beaches, and beautiful gardens. Huge churches with multi coloured sunlight streaming through the stained glass window. An intimate ceremony on the top of a cliff over looking the ocean – and what these experience have given me is calmness, confidence and the skill to quietly observe and predict the unguarded moments.

What’s Changed – and What Never Will

Trends come and go – I’ve seen vintage, shabby chic, boho, editorial, two tone dresses, Wedding cakes made of rounds of cheese, naked cakes, huge cakes with royal icing and fairy cakes stacked into a pyramid … I’ve sewn brides into their dresses when the zip has failed, informed a groom via sign language that his ring was infact on the wrong hand. Danced around drones, scurried backward through a tunnel of sparkles and handled veils in 30mph winds.

But what hasn’t changed?

The power of a meaningful photograph. The downside of doing this for so long, is you hear of the losses of loved ones. Im bumped into a groom I shot 10 or so years before. We were both on ferry traveling back to the Island. He informed me that after a valiant fight with breast cancer, his beautiful brave beloved wife had died. I could see the pain in his eyes as he told me. He then said that his wedding album sits next to his chair at home. He looks at it when he is having a tough day. He talks to her about their wedding on a really hot day in July. He recalls the hotel and its beautiful grounds in the New Forest. This breaks my heart - but warms it too. I captured those moments, he no longer has her, but he has my photographs.

Witnessing the moment when the couples witnesses are signing the register and the bride and groom have the opportunity to talk freely and queitly for the first time, is one of my favourite moments. They are so happy that their smiles consumes most of the faces and they giggle. They might look at their hands, at the new ring that still feel a bit strange. They might share a kiss or he might whisper “you look beautiful” in her ear. I love these moments. Pure joy, excitement, love and happiness.

Something that I will never tire of, take for granted or become complacent about is the trust this couple has put in me. They have allowed me in to be the closest witness of this day. To record it. To become part of their inner circle. And then I almost vanish into the crowd, its not about me, I have been likend to a snipper, hiding in the shadows capturing moments that arent planned or posed. I know I am the only person who will be with all day. The hugs and overwhelming gratitude I get when I leave them dancing the night away, is wonderful. I walk to my car with my camera bag seemingly weighing much heavier than I remember. I have achey feet, sore shoulders and a heart filled with love.

Why I’m Still So in Love With What I Do


You don’t stay in this job unless you truly love it. And I do. I love celebrating your love, I know it sounds cheesy, but its true. 20 years and yes I can be seen to cry during the speeches, and wow I have heard some speeches! And on those tougher days we all experince in life I have the pleasure to read my google reviews and see that my couples really appreciate and love what I do and how I do it.

And my couples feel it too:

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All I can say is thank you so, so much for everything you did for us on the day. I’ve had a few comments about how good you were! You not only did your job, but you were so attentive to me the entire day as well and I am so grateful for that! You really helped the day run smoothly. It was the most perfect day and you played a big part in that, so thank you. All the photos and they’re lovely! “

A & J

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“We would like to say a huge THANK YOU to Mandy who shared our wedding day with us. Mandy captured the pure joy and happiness of our special day in her incredible photographs and delighted us with her ideas and suggestions to capture moments with family and friends never to be forgotten.
So, if you are looking for a passionate, professional, attentive photographer who has an incredible eye for detail in all its guises, then please do contact Mandy. We have absolutely no hesitation in recommending her to anyone who wishes to have their special day captured forever
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K & N


IF YOU HAVE JUST FOUND ME, HELLO!


Whether you're newly engaged or deep into planning, I’m here to help. If you choose to book me, you’re getting more than just a photographer. You’re getting:

  • A calm, creative presence

  • A lipstick and dress checker

  • A timeline ninja and experienced cat herder (that’s what people say when your trying to get all family together for a group shot)

  • but most of all someone who knows what she’s doing and really cares


Let’s grab a cuppa and chat about your dream day. I’d love to hear your story and then have the opportunity to tell it through timeless, joy-filled photographs.

Either fill in the form on the link below, email me at me@mandymeadowsphotography.co.uk or call me directly on 07507 853817. I cant wait to meet you

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Yard Day at Barton Manor – Ponies, Passion & the Power of Connection

This past weekend, at the start of August, I had the absolute pleasure of photographing a yard day at the stunning Barton Manor. It was one of those shoots that stays with you — not just for the beautiful setting, but for the stories, the connections, and the ponies that reminded me so much of the journeys I've shared with my own daughter.

As the day unfolded, I was struck again and again by the magic of horses and the people who love them. One pony in particular was giving its young handler quite a challenge — an old gelding, that should have known better. Cheeky and full of attitude, definitely testing the waters. But the rider, though not a match for him when he wanted to graze, held her ground with grace and quiet determination. It was inspiring to watch her assert her leadership and, ultimately, win the pony's respect. A powerful little moment of growth and grit. At the end of the shoot the rider requested they had a straight gallop down the track. I must admit, I was very envious. I’d love to have been in her boots. She had freedom, power, speed & exhilaration. And now she has the photograph too.

Then there was a lovely cob — a beautiful young grey. Calm and radiant. Her presence was gentle, yet striking, and photographing her was an absolute joy. She stood like a pro and looked straight out of a fairytale. Her young handlers hair glistened in the sunlight as did the pony beautiful white mane. At the start of our session, the rider was a little nervous and was grateful of her mums reassuring presence. By the end of the session her young handler walked her back to the stable block on her own. Full of confidence and love. The image makes my heart burst with pride.

Another highlight of the day was meeting a young girl and her first-ever horse. They’ve only been together for six weeks, but the bond they’ve built already is nothing short of beautiful. Both the rider and the horse where timid and quiet, but the horse, a nervous young thoroughbred who didn’t make the grade racing, sensed every move her new human made. Navigating this very different world from a racing yard to a beautiful farm on the Isle of Wight. Watching them interact, you’d think they’d been together for years. That kind of connection is always special to witness and even more special to capture through the lens.

Finally, one of the most touching parts of the day was photographing a girl and horse I know very well — both of whom have overcome significant health challenges. Seeing them now, healthy, happy, and fully in their power, was emotional and deeply rewarding. Moments like that make everything I do worthwhile. Having been close to them and their family throughout these last couple of years, this shoot was such a pleasure and an honour to do. When they both where at their lowest, this shoot was something I hoped I would be able to to do. And here I was. Just perfect.

Whenever I go out for a shoot, I work with my three guiding principles — what I call the Three C’s:

  • Connection – This is always at the heart of what I capture. The bond between horse and rider is what makes each photo sing. I look for that mutual understanding — the love, the respect, the partnership — and I do my best to bring it forward in every frame.

  • Content – The background matters. A clean, tidy yard and thoughtful setup make a huge difference to the final image. Barton Manor made my job easy — it’s absolutely gorgeous and required very little adjustment to shoot beautifully.

  • Correctness – Presentation is key. I always aim to photograph horses and riders that are turned out correctly: clean tack, correct positioning, and proper handling. Of course, there are fun exceptions — like those dreamy bareback-in-a-dress moments — but even then, safety and respect for the horse always come first.

Wrapping up, I’m genuinely thrilled with the images from the day. The venue was stunning, the people were warm and welcoming, and the ponies were full of personality. I had a fantastic time and can’t wait for the next yard shoot!

📸 Book Your Own Yard Shoot – Special Offer!

Would you love some beautiful images of your horse and your yard family? Right now, I’m offering yard shoot sessions for just £40 per person (instead of the usual £85), when you book as a group of three or more.

It’s relaxed, fun, and a gorgeous way to capture your bond with your horse.

  • 📍 Available for yards on the Isle of Wight.

  • 📆 Limited dates available – early booking recommended!

👉 To book your shoot, message me on whats app 07507853817 or dm via the socials. I also have an email me@mandymeadowsphotography.co.uk

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Branding Shoots with Amber & Wight – A Story of Calm Luxury by the Sea

Amber, the founder, is a woman with passion, purpose, and an extraordinary gift for making women feel seen, nurtured, and beautifully cared for. Her bespoke facial treatments go far beyond skincare—they’re an escape from the everyday. And that sense of escape, of calm, was at the very heart of our branding sessions.

Amber from Amber & Wight taking time to reconnect with the sea before a busy day at the salon.


There’s something really special about working with a brand that knows exactly who it is—and who it’s here to serve. My recent branding photography shoots with Amber & Wight, a high-end beauty and facial specialist based here on the Isle of Wight, were just that: a dream collaboration steeped in calm, vision, and pure luxury.

Amber, the founder, is a woman with passion, purpose, and an extraordinary gift for making women feel seen, nurtured, and beautifully cared for. Her bespoke facial treatments go far beyond skincare—they’re an escape from the everyday. And that sense of escape, of calm, was at the very heart of our branding sessions.

Shoot One: Coastal Calm at Priory Bay, Seaview

We began with a sunrise shoot at Priory Bay in Seaview, a hidden gem of a location that perfectly matched Amber’s serene and luxurious aesthetic. The sea was beautifully still, the tide out, and the beach blissfully quiet—just us and the soft whisper of waves.

Amber moved gracefully through the landscape, barefoot and present, embodying the calm confidence her treatments bring to her clients. The whole experience felt like a breath of fresh sea air: elegant, slow, and soulful. These images capture the essence of what Amber & Wight offers—space to exhale, reconnect, and feel your best self again.

Shoot Two: Serenity Inside the Studio

Our second shoot took place in the tranquil surroundings of Amber’s gorgeous treatment space. From the moment I walked in, it felt like entering a spa sanctuary. The air was scented delicately, the treatment couch was prepped with freshly laundered linen, and everything was styled to reflect intention and care.

During this session, I photographed Amber treating clients to her signature facials—gentle massage, hydrating masks, intuitive touch. Every frame told the story of her bespoke approach to skincare. It’s more than a beauty treatment; it’s time carved out for you.

What’s Next: Headshots & Product Photography

Our next shoot will focus on capturing fresh, professional headshots of Amber—perfect for her website and social media presence—as well as photographs of her carefully curated product range styled naturally within her salon space.

I’m really looking forward to it. I love being in her space, where every detail is so considered and calming. And working with such a passionate, forward-thinking businesswoman is always inspiring. I can’t wait to tell the next chapter of her brand story through imagery.

If you’re a female-led brand looking to elevate your visual identity with intentional, luxury branding photography, let’s chat. I love helping passionate women like Amber bring their vision to life.

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Effortless Elegance: Capturing the Heart of Amber Rose Bridal

Tucked away at the end of her garden lies Amber’s studio — her creative sanctuary, where music plays softly and bridal magic happens. It's her happy place, and the moment you step in, you feel it: a blend of calm, inspiration, and effortless style.

Amber Rose working at trusty machine in her beautiful studio - magic really does happen here

Tucked away at the end of her garden lies Amber’s studio — her creative sanctuary, where music plays softly and bridal magic happens. It's her happy place, and the moment you step in, you feel it: a blend of calm, inspiration, and effortless style.

Amber herself is exactly like her designs — fun, elegant, and so easy to be around. Her gowns are made for the bride who wants something a little different. Unrestrictive, subtly sexy, and full of soul — just like the women who wear them.

This shoot was all about capturing that essence. A designer whose vision celebrates individuality, movement, and beauty without compromise.

We chatted about her brand. I asked her to describe her business. Who her bride is? About her colour palette, the story behind her logo and how she uses photography to connect.

And her designs?Unrestrictive, subtly sexy, and made for the modern bride who wants different — without losing elegance.

Every photo was created to reflect her playful, light, simple and beautifully made business.

Not just portraits — but a full visual story.

After our session, I edited and delivered the images — and Amber was so happy.
She told me she usually doesn’t enjoy being photographed, but she genuinely loved this shoot — and the final images.

Her mum’s words stuck with me:
“You’ve really captured her true personality.”
The biggest compliment.

And the best part? Amber’s now booked me for her first solo shoot. (You’ll see that in an upcoming blog — it’s a good one!)

Photographing passionate, creative women like Amber is one of my favourite things to do.
So if this has sparked something in you — you know where to find me.

To find Amber Rose Bridal go to www.amberrosebridal.co.uk

See you Soon

Mx

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Heels or Trainers on Your Wedding Day? Let’s Settle This Once and for All.

Ah, the age-old wedding question: to heel or not to heel? That is the question. And whether 'tis nobler to suffer the blisters of outrageous stilettos or to arm your feet against a sea of sore arches with a trusty pair of crisp white trainers… well, let’s just say even Shakespeare would struggle on this one.

Heels or Trainers on Your Wedding Day? Let’s Settle This Once and for All.
Why suffer for fashion when you can strut, dance and maybe even sprint down the aisle in style?

Ah, the age-old wedding question: to heel or not to heel? That is the question. And whether 'tis nobler to suffer the blisters of outrageous stilettos or to arm your feet against a sea of sore arches with a trusty pair of crisp white trainers… well, let’s just say even Shakespeare would struggle on this one.

Let’s break it down.

Team High Heels

If you’re the type who’s been known to whisper sweet nothings to your Louboutins, then heels on your wedding day might feel like a non-negotiable. They’re elegant, timeless, and give you that statuesque “I-just-married-a-prince” energy.

Pros:

  • Instant posture boost. You’ll stand tall, shoulders back, feeling like royalty.

  • Legs for days. Even Cinderella knew the power of a perfect shoe.

  • They photograph chef’s kiss. The drama! The sparkle!

Cons:

  • Pain. Let’s not sugarcoat it. After an hour on cobbled Isle of Wight church paths or garden gravel, you may start questioning all your life choices.

  • Sinking into grass. Brides who’ve had outdoor ceremonies know this heartbreak too well. One step and suddenly you’re a tent peg.

Team Trainers

Now, if you’re more into freedom, fun, and being able to feel your toes past 3pm, trainers might just be your bridal BFF.

Pros:

  • Comfort galore. You can dance, skip, or even moonwalk down the aisle.

  • Statement style. White leather trainers with “Mrs” stitched on the heel? Yes please.

  • Total surprise factor. Lift your dress and reveal your secret weapon—the comfy queen lives!

Cons:

  • Less traditional. If Great Aunt Edna is expecting a satin pump moment, she may raise an eyebrow.

  • Not all dresses are made for trainers—but the right pairing? Absolute editorial-level chic.

The Hybrid Hero: The Outfit Change

Why not both? Cue glitter confetti.

Start the ceremony in your heels—float down the aisle in all your elegant glory. Then, for the reception or post-photos, swap into your trainers like the bridal boss you are. One for the romance, one for the rave. It’s the best of both worlds (and your feet will thank you later).

Final Thoughts (from someone who’s photographed both)

As someone who’s captured hundreds of Isle of Wight “I dos”, let me tell you: the best wedding shoes are the ones that let you be you. Whether you’re clicking down the aisle in Jimmy Choos or jumping for joy in Stan Smiths—own it.

Because at the end of the day, it’s not about what’s on your feet—it’s about where they’re taking you. And that’s into a lifetime of love, laughter, and very possibly… more shoes.

Which team are you on? Drop me a message on Instagram or tell me during your pre-wedding shoot—I’m dying to know. And if you’re still undecided? Bring both. I’ve got a camera and zero judgement. By the way I wear a Adidas Samba’s to photograph weddings!

Love, laughter, and no blisters,

Mandy x

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Tiny Humans at Big Weddings: The Pros & Cons of Kids at Your "I Do"

Let’s face it — weddings are a delicate balance of elegance, emotion, and... chaos. And nothing brings all three in one sugar-fueled package quite like children. Whether you're the bride wondering if your cousin’s triplets will upstage your first dance, or a guest nervously clutching a juice box as a peace offering, the question remains: should kids be on the guest list?

Title: Tiny Humans at Big Weddings: The Pros & Cons of Kids at Your "I Do"

Intro:

Let’s face it — weddings are a delicate balance of elegance, emotion, and... chaos. And nothing brings all three in one sugar-fueled package quite like children. Whether you're the bride wondering if your cousin’s triplets will upstage your first dance, or a guest nervously clutching a juice box as a peace offering, the question remains: should kids be on the guest list?

Here’s a lighthearted look at the pros and cons of pint-sized partygoers at weddings — from someone who's seen it all through the lens.

PRO: Unscripted Entertainment

Children are walking, talking wild cards. One moment they’re dropping petals like royalty, the next they’re sliding across the dance floor on their knees in formal wear. You simply can’t plan the kind of joy a toddler brings when they burst into spontaneous dance during your vows. It's real, it's hilarious, and it makes for excellent photos.

CON: Unscripted Drama

Of course, the same unpredictability can go... sideways. Think: mid-ceremony meltdowns, cake fingered before it’s cut, or a tiny guest yelling “BORING!” during the readings. It’s not a bug — it’s a feature. But one you might prefer at someone else’s wedding.

PRO: Heart-Melting Moments

Flower girls and page boys in miniature suits and dresses? Stop. It’s almost illegal how cute that is. Add in a proud grandparent tearfully holding a baby during your first dance and boom — emotionally cinematic gold.

CON: Bedtime is Non-Negotiable

Unlike your best mates, kids don’t get a second wind. Once the clock strikes 7pm, Cinderella’s carriage turns into a screaming pumpkin. Early exits, overtired tears, or entire families disappearing just before the speeches are all part of the bedtime battlefield.

PRO: Built-In Ice Breakers

Nothing gets Aunt Judith and your old uni pals talking faster than a three-year-old zooming past with a napkin cape and two fistfuls of Haribo. Kids loosen up a room and remind everyone it’s okay to smile, laugh, and not take things too seriously.

CON: Sticky Fingers Everywhere

You know what doesn't pair well with lace, silk, and tulle? Jam. Or chocolate. Or the mysterious goo that only toddlers seem to produce. Be prepared for the possibility of grubby handprints on your dress, your décor, and possibly your dog.

So, Should You Invite Kids?

It all depends on your vibe.

  • Want a formal, candlelit affair with a string quartet and speeches that go past bedtime? Maybe opt for an adults-only guest list.

  • Dreaming of a relaxed, family-filled day with laughter, love, and a side of chaos? Bring on the babes.

  • Somewhere in the middle? Offer a kids’ table, hire a wedding nanny, or arrange a quiet space for naps and cartoons (aka sanity savers).

Whatever you choose, own it. Clear communication on invites is key. And if you're on the fence — have your photographer ready. Because whether it’s giggles or tantrums, kids bring a kind of magic that no one else can.

Final Thought:

Just remember — whether your wedding is a no-kids soirée or a full-blown family jamboree, it’s your day. And no matter what, we’ll capture it beautifully (even if there’s a toddler with cake on their nose in the background).

P.S. If you're wondering whether a child-free wedding will ruffle feathers, the answer is probably yes. But hey, so will the seating chart.

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